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  Online Dating Sites
Internet DatingOnline dating is a great way to meet new people or find a girlfriend!

Here are some recommended Internet Dating sites. They are free to join and search for singles:


Posted by gfs on Thursday, 23 September 2004 (18:12:04) EDT (2153 reads)
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  Online Dating Tips - from iMatchup.com
Internet DatingThis article comes courtesy of iMatchup.com


Online dating is fun and exciting – so keep these tips from iMatchup.com in mind, and you’ll have a great experience!


Do:

  • Write a Great Profile—The best way to get noticed and stand out in a sea of faces is to have a stellar—and detailed—profile. With a super profile, you’ll be noticed by people with whom you have common interests and relationship goals.
  • Include a Great Photo – Your photo should be a recent picture, just of you – no ex-partners cropped out!
  • Be Proactive—Go after what you want…you have nothing to lose by trying…so get out there and send flirt notices, send emails, and set up some chat room dates.
  • Stand Out—Be personable and friendly. The more you correspond with potential mates, the better feel you’ll get for the situation
  • Stay Positive and Have Fun—Keep a positive spin on what you write. Talk about yourself, but don’t tell everything…save that for your first date!

Don’t:
  • Give out Personal Information—Get to know potential dates first through messaging and chat rooms …before giving out any personal information.
  • Abandon Skepticism—Not everyone is as honest as you are. Be aware that there are cheating spouses and con men and women out there who prey on daters
  • Feel Pressured—Set up fact-to-face meetings only when you’re ready. Always make sure that you are comfortable enough to feel safe meeting this person.
  • Meet in Private—Always meet dates in a public place, such as a restaurant, or a bar.
  • Ignore Your Gut Feeling—If you are getting a bad or “weird” feeling even after the nervousness settles down, end the date.

About iMatchup.com
iMatchup.com, is one of the fastest-growing online dating communities with over 2 1/2 million single people looking to build friendships, make dates and find love in an easy, fun environment. In big cities and rural townships, iMatchup members are meeting the Girl Next Door or striking up a romance with Mr. Right three states over. Our members come from many different backgrounds and are seeking a wide variety of relationships.
Posted by gfs on Monday, 18 October 2004 (11:30:57) EDT (4039 reads)
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  Writing an Internet Dating Profile
Internet DatingThe Playa writes: If you want to find a girlfriend from internet dating, writing a good profile is most important. Remember that girls receive over 10 times the responses to an internet dating profile that men receive so you have to get noticed above the noise. Put a good photo of yourself that reflects your personality and looks friendly or seductive. If you are responding to an online dating ad, be sure to mention something specific that interested you in her profile. Be funny but be careful not to write things that can be misinterpreted. You have to stand out from the guys who send the same response to a hundred girls (the spammers of internet dating).
Posted by gfs on Sunday, 25 September 2005 (17:16:31) EDT (1099 reads)
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  The Five Killer Mistakes Men Make Dating Online!
Internet DatingAnonymous writes: By Mick Jones;
Author of 'How To Meet Women on the Internet.'

Here are the top five mistakes men make when they start to date online…and how to avoid them!

Mistake#1.
Having a Boring, Average Profile!

You have to put some real effort into your profile to make it shine above the masses.

Creating a unique, well-thought-out profile will instantly give you an advantage over 90% of the other men.

Tip one.

Create an interesting / different profile with some humor.
Be sure to have nothing negative in your profile…


Tip two.

Have a good, recently taken photo!
Try a head and shoulders shot and smiling to begin with.


Mistake#2.
Placing Too High a Value on a Potential Date!

This is another instinctive mistake when first starting out.

Your mind plays tricks on you and you put the lady on a pedestal before even meeting her!

Especially if you haven’t had a date for a while…

Tip one.

Treat every potential date as an opportunity for YOU to check HER out and see if you fancy her!

Tip two.

NEVER expect to meet the love of your life on a first date.

This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.


Mistake#3.
Not Meeting Her Quickly Enough!

I did this myself for far too long.

The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen.

So forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email.

As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.

This will save you a lot of time and energy…and disappointments.

Tip one. Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails.

Tip two. If she doesn’t agree to meet, move on and don’t worry about it.

There are plenty more… :-]


Mistake#4.
Emailing Interstate and Overseas Profiles!

I did this a lot when I first started dating online.

It’s tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus.

Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, don’t bother with interstate and overseas profiles.

What are the odds of you two ever hooking up?

Very little chance of it…

Why would someone interstate or overseas be better than someone local?

Tip one.

Only focus on and contact women in your immediate area.

Tip two.

Keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will keep your expenses and time travels down…


Mistake#5.
Not Choosing the Meeting Café.

This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be led by a decisive man. So decide/suggest the café, time and date.

If she can’t make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her…within reason.

She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions…this is good.

Tip one. Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.

Tip two. Be relaxed at the coffee date. Don’t mention past partners or that you haven’t been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy…


Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. This will prevent you from quitting before you get the results you desire and deserve.

Have fun and many happy seductions…

Regards

Mick Jones
Author
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Mail to; editor@howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Mick Jones has cut his teeth at the front lines of the internet dating fields. After many wounds and battle scars Mick now has consistent success. Mick is convinced any man can too.
Posted by gfs on Sunday, 25 September 2005 (10:28:46) EDT (1007 reads)
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  How to Spot an On-Line Jerk
Internet DatingThis article comes courtesy of iMatchup.com

iMatchup.com prides itself on having over 2 1/2 million real, down-to-earth people as our members, though we do know that online dating has often been maligned as populated by “jerks” and phonies.” Even at iMatchup.com we are sometimes subjected to the occasional bad apple, both male and female. Following are some of the ways our users have suggested they can distinguish the “jerks” from the “keepers”:
  1. Photos of a man with a woman’s arms around him or vice versa

  2. Multiple profiles set up on the same site (seeing the same photo again and again)

  3. Members who advise you to contact them by phone only during certain times (many of these end up to be married)

  4. Income marked at $75-100,000 a year and do not have the a) education or b) career (as indicated in their profile) to support that claim

  5. Men signing up as women and advising in their profiles that they are really a man (they do this to get promotions only available to women)

  6. Anybody who is asking for money to pay for their memberships for them

  7. Anybody who asks for money in general!

  8. Anyone stating their website link; these are likely to be web cam girls

  9. Anyone who gives you their email or web address in their profile/message and it sends you to a paid site, advertisement, etc.

  10. Young women 18-25 stating that they will only talk to older men (45-65) in profiles, messages, etc.

Now you're ready to visit iMatchup.com
Posted by gfs on Thursday, 23 September 2004 (16:57:55) EDT (1613 reads)
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