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| What to do When the gf is cheating |  Anonymous writes: Sup i am just recently finding out that my girl has cheated on me with one of my good friends. This is really a complicated issue for me because for once i really like the girl and wouldnt mind her being with me for a long time. It apparently happend one night when she had people over drinking at her house and me and a couple of friends were over at her house. I ended up leaving when the party began winding down but a few of her girlfriends where spending the night over at her house. Before I left i said goodnight to my girl and asked my friends mike and Bristen if they were going to leave also. Mike, lives a few houses from my girlfriend so he said he was gonne stay there for a little longer and walk back to his house becuase he was too drunk to drive so i thought nothing of it and left because i had to work early in the morning. The next day she had people over again and my girl was acting really strange towards me. It wasnt untill three days later that Kathleen ( my girl ) called me at work and told me she had something she had to tell me in person. When i got to her house after work she told me that she didnt want to hurt me after I asked her what the problem was. She told me that she made out with mike who had been a close friend for four years or so. I was mad of course but i felt as if she wasnt telling me everything because she said she forgot how it happend and how long there little make out session lasted. I immeadiatly went to speak with mike himself about the issue. All he could say im sorry i was really drunk. I tried my hardest to not be mad and it worked untill my other friend jake told me i didnt know the whole story. On my way back from the casino the next day, Jake told mike to tell me what really happend with my gf. I found out that she just didnt kiss him but somehow went into her room and got buck ass naked and she gave him oral pleasure. The whole fact almost makes me sick. I was so furious becuase she told me straight to my face that she didnt do anytihing but kiss and it was a big mistake. She wasnt even drunk and she did it. we broke up that same night after i woke her up and bitched at her for a while. At this point I was real bummed out becasue this is the longest relationship i ahve ever been in Seven months. I tried my best to work it out still maybe because i am dumb but i really cared for her. I still wonder if i can even trust her. It used to be at least for me once a cheater always one but i changed so i hope she can also. The only problem is that she admitted to having feelings for him for the longest time and said she still does but she loves me. I was very doubtfull. Now i am just waiting to see how things play out. I dont know if this means anything or not but yesterday she said she was going to chill wtih her friend candice for a while then call me because she wanted to hang out but she ended up not answering her phone because it was on silent. That is fine with me but then later when she finally called me back at the end of the day she said she left candice and went over to mikes house for a while and chilled. This made me mad at the moment because she also said that she got back from his house and fell asleep so she couldnt answer my call. I really dont trust her alone with mike at all. Even though I had a talk with mike about his feeling for her. He said he had feelings for her and would of gone out with her If I wasnt. Every time that i bring up the cheating to kathleen she gets mad and tells me to stop bringing it up but i may still sub consioiusly have my doubts that she can stay dedicated to me. I wonder how much she actually goes over to his house when i drop her off at home because she says she is tired. I dont know what i am asking for, maybe just some advice to either start trusting her again or how to find out if she is still doing things with him or not
GFS: Wow, that sucks I would have to say that you have no reason to trust her. She seems to keep lying and there is no reason to think she'll stop soon. She probably doesn't really know what she wants so she's just messing around. My advice is to ask her to make some decision and be ready to walk away. Also be ready for the fact she might go out with Mike. I know it's shitty when someone betrays your trust but remember the good times and find a new girl.
| | Posted on Thursday, 21 October 2004 (16:04:53) UTC by gfs | | |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 19 November 2004 (00:50:44) UTC | | Listen, it's over. She gave oral to another guy. But that doesn't mean you have to leave her just yet. Stay in the relationship for now, cheat as often as you can, and someday, when you're ready, then you leave. But there's no sense in depriving yourself and making yourself miserable until you have someone to replace her with. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 09 January 2005 (18:13:12) UTC | | i dunno if ur still gonna read this its january but anyways my AIM is ITS ME FORGET HOES ... the same shit happened to me and i still hurt very much after a year of its occurence...u have to understand one thing gurls are all very bad choise makers and that kid he aint ur friend and shes not a lady but the 1st coment has a lot of truth keep with her and cheat on her and when ur ready leave her |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 03 February 2005 (23:34:24) UTC | "Bros before Ho's" my friend. If your friend breaks this rule, then he isn't your friend no more. Move on and bone some other chick, there is lots of em out there.
As for your bro I'd ask him to choose, you or her. If he chooses her, then write him out of you life.
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, 12 April 2005 (08:36:37) UTC | | hey dude... I can so damm well understand ur feelings about how u actually care abt this girl. Most of my friends approach me for all these kinda women issue's whether to find out stuff abt her or how they should give her a surprise... now as far as your case goes... Sorry man she is STILL CHEATING ON U with Mike the simple reason being which girl is gonna go out with her friend chill out and after chill out with this dude, who her bf that is u... is not comfortable she hangin out with. Believe me or not from all these examples she is cheating on u! |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 28 April 2005 (08:24:18) UTC | | ok i also got back from a bad 6 month relationship and i know how u feel cuz my ex amanda cheated on me the first month we were dating and i didnt even know it till i got an email from her telling me that she was playing me.i would not trust her if i were u but i would get a little payback for what she did.go out with her best friend candice and make her realize that she made a mistake,and if that wont work just do what u like to do that makes u happy like play video games or sports or something hang out with ur friends.also ask ur friend mike what happened to bros before hoes.but i would find a new girl to date and just show her what she lost. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 29 April 2005 (11:27:37) UTC | | dude i know how u feel ive been cheated on 15 times and the my last relationship tore me up the worst.the key to get over a girl is just do something fun that u like to do like play football with ur friends,or just find another girl but first if u find another girl see how that girl acts around other guys and what kind of a girl she is cuz girls act a certain way to a guy dont just pick a random girl pick a girl u know she wont cheat on u so u will not get hurt again. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 19 May 2005 (05:55:56) UTC | If I were you i'd hit that mike guy so hard and for such a long time that they would take us both to the hospital, him for plastic surgery and me to take my hand out of his skull.
Never had it done to me, that i know of, but if a friend (not a random unknown guy) does it, he can hope for the worst |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, 07 June 2005 (19:48:45) UTC | | This sounds alot like my exgirlfriend , Which is also named Kathleen , I kinda wonder if this isn`t the same girl ! I had a problem with a girl named Kathleen back in high school years ago ! Which really screwed up my life back then after she cheated and then comes and tells me ! Oh By the way I can`t see anymore ! Because Iam seeing someone else now ! Why can someone you care about ! Just turn out to be so cold ? Pretty much tells you what kind of Person she really is ! Cold hearted with no feelings for others except herself and her fun life ! |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, 21 June 2005 (07:49:20) UTC | serious man. that girl is a ***. she is cheating on u continuely and u are still thinking shes tell u the true. dude go on with her life and get a new girl friend. forget the past and go ahead ot the future. theres not only one girls they are lots and u might find a girl who is 10 times better then her. shes a lier she lies to u a thousand times. y bother trust her again. forget her and ur best friend just protend it never happen. u are making urself mad just to think about it and talking about it. forget it and never talk about it again. that girl is a ***** if she really loves u she wont give ur best friend oral pleasure. dude believe me u must forget it and go ahead with life.
hop it helps
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, 29 June 2005 (20:38:32) UTC | | wow dude almost the exacht same thing happend to me just a couple days ago, with out oral or being drunk, she fukin made out with this guy at the mall and now she says shes really attracted to him but she wants to be with me and her feelings are still there for me but she wants to be with this guy for a while, pisses me off, we were together for two years to the day that she did, yea on our anniversary, im more hurt then i have ever been in my life and if ud like to talk email me at thelowbar@gmail.com... thnx |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 02 September 2005 (22:58:59) UTC | | hey man....i feel what your saying bout you cant let her go, but snoop did say it in 94 we dont love them hoes...and far as that ***** made dude, ***** him, hell get his.........stay up man, theres always gonna be a new hoe |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, 21 November 2005 (07:30:41) UTC | hi, i dnt know if ul get this dude but if you do plz take this as constructive critisim. this girl is all wrong for you man. you need to get some balls and sort this out dude. i know exactly how you feel but its like they say treat them mean and keep them keen. you are being a wimp always laying back letting this girl go round this dudes place. cause i know just from wat you said that she is blatintly getting jiggy with that wanker. he isnt your mate trust me! tell that girl where to stick it them you go out and get paid bruv.
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, 02 December 2005 (21:31:39) UTC | First of all u kick ur friends ass for taking ur girlfriend and if she doesn't talk to u after u kick ur friends ass send here what she likes and if she throw the stuff that u send her then find a new girl.  |
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My girlfirend of 5 weeks has gotton cold towards me??? (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 25 December 2005 (15:40:53) UTC | | Just have a question. My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 5 or 6 weeks now. Been pretty close spending some quality time together. Now tis the season is here and she wanted to spend some time alone and I didnt handle it very well. She got mad and now I havent seen her in about 6 days . Before I would call and she would say please come be with me now its I dont know other things are going on or somehing like that. Did I ruin something that we had or should I play differently on this behalf please can someone help??? |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, 10 April 2006 (15:52:41) UTC | | dude that sucks, you should kick ur firends ass, and i wouldnt trust her at all since she lives so vlose to him. Some of my friends do that same thing to there gfs all the time |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 15 June 2006 (11:23:38) UTC | | mate id jus get outta there str8 away. sure u can stay and cheat, but u obviously like her so ull jus be hurting urself around her. chin up and get a clean break m8, no1 says it will b easy. and as for ur "mate" he needs a good kick in the balls id say, but i wouldnt blame you for jus forgetting about it and ignoring him.. peace |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, 15 June 2006 (11:32:32) UTC | | no offence intended but ur acting like a real wuss. ur girl betrays u wit ur best m8 n ur still with her, even tho you know their still seeing each other! first id dump the ***** like a tonne of shit, then id go round to your mates and duff him up real bad! |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, 26 September 2006 (11:19:53) UTC | This is probably not the best of ideas, but if it was me i wld sit in my car a bit up the road from her house after u drop her off and wait. Then u can tell if she goes round to his house. Then if u see her go in wait about 5 minutes and go to ur friend mike's house for a "friendly visit". If she is cheating on u u will catch her, and if she's not nobody has to know that u sat in ur car for hours trying to catch her and everyone will be happy.
Again, this is not very good advice, but it wld work in theory. |
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Re: my parents dont let me have it what do i do (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, 27 September 2006 (14:56:14) UTC | | hi my name is jen im 20 and i small my parent dont let me have you now rite and i readly need how its feels it is so important for me i need to now how it feels and explain please i need to see if you cant seended me video or picture people make out thanks i said that im 20 well im going to 21 and to all the boys im so sexy |
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Re: my parents dont let me have it what do i do (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, 27 September 2006 (14:57:55) UTC | | hi my name is jen im 20 and my parent dont let me have you now rite and i readly need how its feels it is so important for me i need to now how it feels and explain please i need to see if you cant seended me video or picture people make out thanks i said that im 20 well im going to 21 and to all the boys im so sexy alot of people think im a teenager because im so skiny and kind of small |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, 05 May 2007 (18:36:03) UTC | | Dude, Im sorry man but if she cared she would be with you after that and dedicate herself to you. But insted she goes back to mikes house to chill. The truth hurts. I would just let her go and find another girl. You seem like a good guy and should be able to find that. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, 16 June 2007 (20:29:10) UTC | | Dude, she is just stringing you along. She is def still havng fun with that kid and he def doesnt wnt you to know bu he also doesnt care that you still get to hit.after all you were hittin it first. she doesnt care becasue he is keeping his mouth shut. her friend kathlen is playing along with the story casue she doesnt want you tp get hurt. why dont you realize that 7months is a joke, and have fun with katheln...and go out in the same night and get a random chick thats hotter tohave fun with you. then youre gf can be your xgf. then after that she start being jelous casue youre happy. make it an efort to show your happy for her and your frined. but at the same time make it an effort to make sure she knows your so happy with the new girl...dates and flower..stories wharever...rememeber the girl MUST be better than her. then...let some time go by...like a month...and BAM ...get drunk with her and ***** the shit out of her. the next day make it an effort for him to know becasue you dont want him to be mad. make sure you ***** her harder than youve ever ****ed her..***** her like its going to be the best ***** she has ever had...when its done...tell her shes a whore and that your gf is so much better in bed.,,,if you do this...youll get your friend back for lying to you...youll get kathlen back for playing along...youll get a hotter gf...and youll make your gf feel shittier than you felt the day she cheated on you...becasue afterwards when you call her a slut...wheres her defense. she knows you have a gf and she has a bf...if she flips it on you, just say i just wanted to see if you really were a slut and that you had tyo get that of your chest to overcome her cheatin on you. YOULL B THE MAN IF YOU CAN DO THIS..furthemore, if your friend gets mad at you let hinm get in your face...say you dont want to fight and act like a peon...when you flares up bigger and badder...sucker punch him the ***** out. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, 23 July 2007 (19:38:47) UTC | | yeah wow..well no u cant trust her because she lied to ur face about it. the fact that she would touch another guys wee , knowing damn well what was happening meens that she dosnt love u. as harsh as it is its true. she may like u alot , but as fare as u two being together, that wont work due to the fact that u veiw ur relationship differntly. i say try to move on, distance from mike and from that *****. |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, 26 September 2007 (16:03:00) UTC | | Listen my man you have to have a little pride for your self. If she wasnt drunk and still did that to him that means she was concient of what she did. And for more that you love her and if she keeps on lying to you then be a man be strong move on. But be prepared if after you move on she goes back to mike. But remember if she has feelings for him and she did what she did she probably gonna do it again behind ur back. best wishes to you |
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Re: What to do When the gf is cheating (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, 23 December 2007 (23:31:29) UTC | | IIght i feel u on this one so wat u do iz u tell her u forgive and forget then u screw her bestfriend and record it if she lets u show it 2 her then dumb her |
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